Dogs can make excellent companions. They offer loyalty, comfort, and a sense of purpose that many people find emotionally fulfilling. But even with the many benefits of dog ownership, it is not always the right time – or the right situation – to bring a dog into your life. There are times when adding a pet may cause more stress, create a poor quality of life for the animal, or put a strain on your mental, emotional, or financial resources.

The following are examples of situations where it may be better to wait before getting a dog, even if the desire is there.

Situations Where Dog Ownership May Not Be Appropriate

Owning a dog means making a long-term commitment to another living being that requires consistent care, structure, and financial support. While there are many people that feel they “need” a dog for companionship or motivation, dogs require more than just love. In the following situations, it may be better to wait or re-evaluate whether getting a dog is the right choice:

• You’re Experiencing Major Life Transitions – Moving, changing jobs, starting or ending a relationship, welcoming a new baby, or grieving a loss can significantly disrupt daily life. Dogs thrive on stability and routine. Adding a dog in the middle of life upheaval can lead to behavioral issues in the dog and added stress for you.
• You Work Long Hours or Travel Frequently – Dogs need companionship, bathroom breaks, exercise, and consistent feeding schedules. If your lifestyle keeps you away from home for extended periods, your dog may experience anxiety, health problems, or destructive boredom-related behavior.
• You’re Struggling Financially – Dog ownership includes upfront costs (adoption, supplies, vaccinations) and recurring expenses (food, grooming, vet visits, emergency care). If you’re currently managing debt or living paycheck to paycheck, it’s important to consider the financial implications of owning a pet that could live 10 to 15 years or more.
• You’re in Temporary or Shared Housing – Many landlords do not allow pets, or only allow them under strict conditions. In shared housing or roommate arrangements, dogs can cause tension, damage property, or trigger allergies and fears in others. A sudden move or eviction could also leave you with limited housing options that accommodate pets.
• You Lack the Time or Energy to Train – Dogs require training to become manageable household companions. Puppies in particular need structure, patience, and socialization. If you do not have the time or mental energy to work with a dog daily, especially early on, behavioral issues may develop that are difficult to reverse.
• You’re Hoping the Dog Will Fix Something Emotional – Dogs can provide emotional support, but they cannot replace therapy, treat loneliness on their own, or compensate for unresolved mental health challenges. If the primary reason for getting a dog is to stop feeling depressed or to save a relationship, it may put unrealistic pressure on the animal and lead to disappointment.
• You Expect a Major Change Soon – While it’s true you cannot tell the future, you can still loosely estimate where your life will be in 1, 2, even 5 years. If you are planning to have a baby, planning a move, expect to be busy with work, even though a dog may be the right decision now, you have to remember that you cannot change your mind in 3 years when life is too hectic. Make sure you’re ready for a dog for at least 3 to 5 years, and are not expecting a big change soon.

There are also other considerations. For example, if someone in your household has a fear of dogs or if your physical health limits your mobility, owning a dog – especially an active breed – could be impractical or unsafe.

Waiting Can Be the Right Choice

Getting a dog is a major life decision. If the timing or circumstances aren’t right, it’s not a failure to wait. It’s a responsible choice that prioritizes both your well-being and the quality of life the dog would have in your care. When your life is more stable, your schedule more flexible, and your finances more secure, that’s when dog ownership becomes a fulfilling experience for both you and the animal.

If you have a dog and you would benefit from more help training it, reach out to me today.